Self-Doubt & Self-Confidence

Victor See (徐伟彬)

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In life, there are days and moments where everything we do does not feel enough, or face situations that are beyond our control. A common response to such instances is to doubt ourselves and our abilities, and that is a very normal and human thing to do. But the effect of self-doubt can cut both ways: It can either spur us to achieve our goals and thereby boost our confidence levels, or cause us to feel entirely powerless and paralysed. Fortunately, whether we allow it to work for or against us is mostly up to us. In this issue, we will explore the ways in which we can harness self-doubt to build confidence -- one step at a time.

Moving from Self Doubt to Self Confidence

It would be nice if moving from self doubt to self confidence just came naturally. However, moving from self doubt to self confidence is a practice you can adopt, with practice. When you are able to identify where your insecurities lie and what is stopping you from feeling confident, you can then start the process of moving from self doubt to self confidence. You will be able to work on eliminating the blocks that are keeping you from moving through life with assuredness. Here are some of the culprits for the patterns of self doubt and ideas for what you can do about them.

Why confidence and knowledge can lead to smart money decisions

Two common areas that cause people to procrastinate financially are knowledge and confidence. Logically, we know that financial literacy can boost our confidence to make informed money-management decisions. Yet, many people tell me that they lack the confidence to learn and absorb that financial knowledge, which holds them back. However, everybody is capable of effectively managing their money. While some need mindset adjustments, others need a confidence boost or a little reassurance that they are on the right track. Take small steps, follow and when doubt starts to creep in, remind yourself that money is only a tool and you are learning.

9 Habits That Are Destroying Your Confidence

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A great leader that inspires creativity: The savvy financial advisor: I have known Victor for over 3 years now and have thoroughly enjoyed working with him closely. He has a very analytical and methodical approach to financial planning and always comes with new and interesting ideas. He is incredibly tech savvy and finds the most appropriate innovate solutions to solve problems. The great leader: Working with Victor as my manager has been a breathe of fresh air. He empowers his consultants to be creative and put their own personality into their work. Always being there as the guiding light and problem solver, he lets us truly express ourselves. This approach is what truly differentiates him from everyone else out there and helps him push people to their full potential. The wonderful human being: In-spite of being very successful in his career, Victor is very humble and approachable. He is able to connect with and have conversation with everyone as he is a very positive person to be around. Truly compassionate and always looking out for the best of everyone around him. He truly is a gem of a person.

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